Sacred Celebration: Making the Most of the Holidays
By Jack Adam Weber L.Ac., Dipl. C.H.
Most holidays in first world countries are about having fun,
and most involve explosives. Maybe this is the extreme stimulation we need to
feel excited. Our holidays largely lack spiritual context and meaning, save for
expressing our love to one another and sharing good times. Religious holidays
that literalize religious myths don’t fare much better in terms of helping us
deal with reality.
We are missing the sacred in our celebrations, which would
honor the things and experiences for which we are truly grateful, that truly
fulfill us and give us life, as if we were truly grateful... which collectively
we may really not be. Our Earth-honoring rituals have all but disappeared in
the modern world and visits to the natural world for many are akin to going to
Disneyland. How might we make a shift?
Sacred celebration leaves us feeling more whole while doing
little to no damage to the natural world. We feel better after sacred
celebration, even if “better” is simply to acknowledge what is true — true
about ourselves and about the world today, the next year, and hopefully longer.
To this end, grief and despair, decline and decay, are also
worthy of celebration, as central to the cycle of fertility in both soma and
psyche. These emotions were more prevalent in pervious eras, before we lost the
deeper meaning of holidays, which holy days originally marked the turning of
the seasons and the qualities we needed to cultivate at certain times of the
year in order to honor and live and in harmony with natural cycles . . . to
increase fertility both inwardly and outwardly.
When we celebrate and genuinely feel gratitude for what is
sublimely beautiful and enchanting, gross expression is less needed. In fact,
such appreciation requires a good dose of quiet so as to be consolidated in us,
sacredly and quietly abided by, not dispersed in gross outward expression. In
fact, I notice a correlation between outward exclamation and inner poverty; in
other words the less at home we feel in our bodies, the more we yell and scream
and make noise. I am not saying we have to be monks, but we would do well to
find more genuine awe and inner richness for our celebrations, which would cut
down on the immense amounts of holiday pollution we make. Remembering the
natural cycles of the year and their significance for our inner and outer lives
would help.
Celebrations that cause damage not only to ourselves but to
the world around us, that have little heart, and merely serve as more diversion
and drama, are emblematic of our footprint on Earth. Ironically, it is on the
holidays (at least American ones) that we collectively increase pollution on
the planet. A return of the sacred to our days, especially to our celebrations,
would be a small gesture of the gratitude for being here and for the gifts of
the Earth.
Our short-term celebrations bear the same signature as our
short-term pleasures, short-term consumption habits, short-term environmental
policies, and short-mindedness. Just as we need new consumer models that ensure
durability, we need celebrations that profoundly shift our focus, habits, and
our effects on everything non-human.
Christmas and New Year’s
Christmas and Chanukah roughly correspond with the winter
solstice, when the sun is the lowest on the horizon, and makes its way back to
the heavens. Christmas and Chanukah both celebrate the return of this light.
But this light is not just in the sky above our heads; it is in our very chest.
So, during these December holidays we can take stock of the past year, reflect
on our challenges, and give thanks for however we have made it through. We can
be grateful for the resilience of our hearts and the skills we marshaled to get
through. And we can use New Year’s to make resolutions to enact what we
learned: how to stay out of trouble, how to make better use of our time, ways
to better our wellness and that of what we love. In. honor of the Earth, we
might commit to helping it out some too, to participate in the renewal of
growth as marked by the increasing daylight and the corresponding outward and
upward growth of plants.
The noise of holidays gets in the way of meaningful
reflection. Rather than try to get away from it, sometimes I embrace the
affliction and let my creativity find healing. Last year on New Year’s Eve,
amid the noise, I imagined the body of Nature cringing in disgust, as if
saying, “Ugh, there go those humans again hurting my ears and polluting my
veins, as if every non-holiday were not enough!” This is a poem that I wrote on
that New Year’s Eve after a walk through the orchard on my farm. It will appear
in my new book Rebearth, alongside my other collections of poems.
Explosion
The most dazzling explosion
Was the wings of a moth
On a papaya tree in the orchard
Whose spread was a tapestry
Of bronze, ochre, purple, indigo, crimson, and taupe.
It lay there easy amid the noise, its iridescent eyes
Glowing as no fireworks can.
I thought to take a picture
But declined, to celebrate such quiet ecstasy.
We need so little when we are already bursting inside,
Destroy so much trying to ignite what already smolders.
“Happy New Year” I
wished the moth,
As it flew away
Leaving no smoke, no echo, no trash,
Just color, preserved in flight.
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