How To Live In The Flow Of Life
By Frank M. Wanderer Ph.D
On the ordinary days of our life, you work, educate your
children, have some fun, build and sustain connections with others, that is,
you live an ordinary life. The question is, whether you are mindful during all
these things, or you just perform these activities mechanically and
automatically.
What would be the evidence for me that you are not mindful?
First, that you are not present. To be present means that
you are fully alert, attentive, and conscious in the present moment. Whatever
you do, you do that fully consciously, you focus your entire attention on that
particular activity.
Secondly, are you careless most of the time, as a large
segment of your attention is bound by dealing with events or your thoughts? If
so psychological time displaces the moment of the present, or subordinates it
to past or future.
You will therefore perform the overwhelming majority of your
daily activities mechanically. Your attention will only become more intensive
when you meet someone or deal with something you find interesting,
If you are mindful, only the Here and Now exist for you.
This state of consciousness is characterized by deep silence and tranquility.
You could ask, how to access this state of consciousness? I
would answer you, that in your life you have already lived through this mind
state, more than once.
On the grey veil of ordinary consciousness, there are gaps
every now and then, and the bright light of the Consciousness shines through
the gaps. Such moments are rare, but they are still there for all those who pay
attention. The toys of your daily life, however, occupy all your attention so
much that you may not even notice an opportunity that opens up for you, your
attention slips away from the Miracle.
When you submerge in your ordinary consciousness, your
attention keeps wandering from past to future. The moments of insight are,
however, only available in the Present, only if you leave behind the
psychological time, the memories of the past and the expectations of the future
all vanish, and you are able to focus your attention to the Miracle that
unfolds in front of your eyes in the Present
It has happened to you that you came under the spell of a
moment some time during your life. A beautiful landscape, a sunset, a beautiful
piece of art, the rhythm of music enchanted you. It may even happen that you
are just lost in the silence of a peaceful moment.
The common feature of these moments is the mind stops
working, the reckless stream of thoughts is suspended. Ego disappears, telling
personal history stops, and the line of your accustomed identity is broken.
Only the spell of the moment, the mysterious shine of the Consciousness
remains.
Why is this moment so enchanting, what is its secret? The
secret is that when thoughts disappear, so do your problems and conflicts, and
you almost forget about all your sufferings. You virtually step out of the
psychological time frame, you stop mulling over injuries of the past, and do
not build your identity for the future.
You are mindful, only the present moment exists for you.
Your soul is permeated by the quiet of the Consciousness and the Joy of the
Existence. The world is alive, pulsating around you, and you are amazed to
realize, how wonderful it is to be alive. You believe that you are only alive
now.
You submit to the moment, sitting in your favorite armchair
or lie on the beach, listening to the noises of your environment, enjoy the
rest, the sunshine and fresh air. Both past and future are far away from you, only
the present moment matters. As if a heavy curtain would have been drawn away in
front of your eyes; now everything is more vivid and brighter around you. You
feel that you are alive, and it is good to be alive. The Miracle almost
completely fills your soul.
Unfortunately, these moments do not last long, because the
mind starts working again very soon, and begins to control the moment by
categorizing it and giving it a name. ”Ah, yes, how beautiful is this sunset”
and the tumbleweed of thinking starts tumbling again:”It reminds me of last
summer, when…”.
The common feature of these moments is the mind stops
working, the reckless stream of thoughts is suspended. Ego disappears, telling
personal history stops, and the line of your accustomed identity is broken.
Only the spell of the moment, the mysterious shine of the Consciousness
remains.
Why is this moment so enchanting, what is its secret? The
secret is that when thoughts disappear, so do your problems and conflicts, and
you almost forget about all your sufferings. You virtually step out of the
psychological time frame, you stop mulling over injuries of the past, and do
not build your identity for the future.
You are mindful, only the present moment exists for you.
Your soul is permeated by the quiet of the Consciousness and the Joy of the
Existence. The world is alive, pulsating around you, and you are amazed to
realize, how wonderful it is to be alive. You believe that you are only alive
now.
You submit to the moment, sitting in your favorite armchair
or lie on the beach, listening to the noises of your environment, enjoy the
rest, the sunshine and fresh air. Both past and future are far away from you,
only the present moment matters. As if a heavy curtain would have been drawn
away in front of your eyes; now everything is more vivid and brighter around
you. You feel that you are alive, and it is good to be alive. The Miracle
almost completely fills your soul.
Unfortunately, these moments do not last long, because the
mind starts working again very soon, and begins to control the moment by
categorizing it and giving it a name. ”Ah, yes, how beautiful is this sunset”
and the tumbleweed of thinking starts tumbling again:”It reminds me of last
summer, when…”.
described in words in the following way: You will be united
with the Consciousness living in you, and you will recognize the forms and
shapes appearing in the space of the Consciousness as part of that Singularity.
About The Author:
Frank M. Wanderer Ph.D is a professor of psychology, a
consciousness researcher and writer. Frank is the author of the books „The
Revolution of Consciousness: Deconditioning the Programmed Mind”, “The Flames
of Alertness: Discover the Power of Consciousness!“, “The Biggest Obstacle to
Enlightenment: How to Escape from the Prison of Mind Games?” and several books
on consciousness. With a lifelong interest in the mystery of human existence,
Frank’s work is to help others wake up from identification with our personal
history and the illusory world of the forms and shapes, and to find our
identity in what he calls “the Miracle”, the mystery of the Consciousness.
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